A groundbreaking introduction to the 21 skills of spiritual intelligence with author and researcher Cindy Wigglesworth. What does it mean to be spiritually intelligent in a world overwhelmed by fear, fragmentation, and a compounding meta-crisis? In this powerful talk, Cindy Wigglesworth argues that spiritual intelligence (SQ) is not a luxury — it’s an essential survival skill for the future human. Building on Ken Wilber’s integral framework and her own groundbreaking SQ21 assessment, Wigglesworth maps out four interdependent lines
of human development: PQ (physical intelligence), IQ (cognitive intelligence), EQ (emotional intelligence), and SQ (spiritual intelligence). Each one matters, but SQ — the ability to act with wisdom and compassion while maintaining inner and outer peace — is essential for humanity’s next leap. Cindy challenges us to rethink common assumptions: spirituality is innate, but spiritual intelligence must be cultivated. Peak mystical states can inspire, but without practice they do not guarantee wise action. The ego is not an enemy to be destroyed, but a navigator that must be matured and placed in service of the higher self. Through vivid stories, practical models, and research data, Wigglesworth shows how SQ is not abstract mysticism but a set of 21 concrete skills that you can cultivate in your own life — from awareness of one’s values and purpose, to skillful ego management, to embodying a calming presence in the world. These skills can be developed like emotional intelligence, and they are just as relevant in corporate boardrooms as they are on the meditation cushion. Her research reveals an important truth
: you don’t need to drag the whole world into “second-tier consciousness” to reduce dysfunction. Even at earlier, more conventional stages
of development, raising EQ and SQ creates less fearful, less reactive, and more compassionate people — what she jokingly calls “less annoying achievers.” At its core, this talk is a call to action: if we want a more functional culture, wiser leaders, and a humane response to our global crises, we must learn to cultivate love in action — wisdom and compassion, the two wings of spiritual maturity. —Recorded at the 2024 ICON Conference in Denver, Colorado
We are all born spiritual
, but not spiritually intelligent.
Spirituality is an innate human need to connect with something larger than ourselves. But intelligence means skill
, cultivated through practice. Just as musical genius requires an instrument and training, spiritual potential requires disciplined development to become spiritual intelligence.
Love isn’t a passive feeling; it’s an active practice of wisdom and compassion.
Spiritual intelligence is “love in action.” But love alone can be sentimental or naïve. True spiritual maturity requires both wings: wisdom (clear seeing, discernment) and compassion (care, empathy). Only when both wings work together can love fly.
Ego is not the enemy — it’s the navigator.
Spiritual growth isn’t about destroying the ego, but maturing it, making it more transparent, and placing it in service to the higher self. Ego understands the terrain of human interaction, but higher self must drive. The shift is from ego in charge to higher self in charge, with ego assisting.
Higher consciousness is not only about “states
” but about “traits” that are cultivated through regular practice and skill development.
Mystical or peak states can inspire, but they don’t guarantee mature or moral behavior. What matters is whether wisdom and compassion show up in daily choices. Spiritual intelligence grounds transcendence into practical, repeatable skills — from self-awareness to leadership presence.
Organizations secretly want spiritual intelligence.
When leaders are asked which admired spiritual qualities they don’t want in their workplace — compassion, integrity, courage, presence — silence falls. Everyone wants them. SQ reframes spiritual maturity not as esoteric, but as profoundly relevant to business, leadership, and collective flourishing.